Distractions

Distract yourself
It’s not unusual during withdrawal from a psychiatric drug to feel completely fixated on your symptoms at times, whether it’s physical pain, emotional numbness or volatility, mental fogginess, or a host of other possibilities. One of the more commonly reported withdrawal experiences, in fact, is ruminative thinking—obsessive, looping thoughts that become so all-encompassing that one forgets that these thoughts are a temporary symptom in and of themselves.
Some people find that ruminations about their symptoms, imaginings of imminent catastrophes, or worries about being permanently "broken" seem to take over, with no apparent way to stop them. These thoughts may tell them that all is lost, or that even though other people might heal they themselves are too far gone. As such thoughts and feelings spiral further and further out, they may elevate stress and escalate symptoms, setting up a vicious cycle. Overwhelmed and feeling totally at the mercy of their minds, some people find themselves at a point where they can’t imagine a reason or a way to keep going.
At times like these, it can be helpful to have a reliable “tool kit” of distractions to escape to—even if just for thirty seconds at a time. Diverting yourself from obsessive thoughts or mental darkness may help (at least temporarily) to interrupt those looping cycles and offer some respite. There are, of course, an infinite number of distractions to try out, and everyone is different: While some people can only allow themselves to be distracted by things that they also believe are “good” for them such as educational documentary films, others are only able to forget themselves in “guilty pleasure” television viewing. Still others find the frequent light changes on electronic screens irritate and aggravate their symptoms rather than distract from them, and they need some kind of non-electronic pastime. In the end, the best diversion is simply the one that works for you. Below, we’ve compiled a list of some of the particular distractions and diversions that people in the withdrawal community have frequently reported as being helpful.
A long list of possible distractions
- Bake or cook, especially foods your body may be telling you it needs, or discover new recipes
- Be in nature
- Build a Lego structure
- Clean out your closet and arrange clothes by color
- Color—try an adult coloring book or a book of mandalas
- Connect with someone else going through withdrawal to offer mutual support
- Count something—leaves in a tree, prayer beads, squares on the ceiling
- Cuddle with someone you love
- Dance
- Do a guided body scan (there are many free ones available online)
- Do puzzles, like Sudoku or crosswords (start with the easiest if need be)
- Do a household task, especially one you’ve been putting off, maybe while listening to some good music
- Do some gardening or repot a plant
- Do repetitive movements, such as rocking
- Do some needlepoint, knit, or crochet
- Do some physical exercise
- Do yoga poses
- Follow a guided visualization
- Get a massage—book a session, ask a friend, or do some self-massage
- Get support from an online mutual support group
- Get yourself feeling really cozy in bed
- Give someone you love a back massage
- Go for a bike ride or a long drive
- Go outside and touch or hug a tree
- Go to a “paint your own pottery” studio
- Hang out with a dog (yours or a friend’s)
- Have a cup of decaf tea
- Hit a punching bag (be sure to wear boxing gloves!)
- Hug someone
- Learn a new language
- Learn about and try out essential oils
- Learn how to do origami
- Learn how to do tapping (EFT)
- Learn how to play a musical instrument
- Learn self-hypnosis
- Learn tai chi
- Light a Himalayan salt lamp
- Light some incense
- Listen to an audiobook when you’re in the car, or at home
- Listen to interesting podcasts, maybe while walking outside
- Listen to Madness Radio
- Listen to music
- Look back at old journals to remember when you felt better
- Make a collage
- Make some bracelets
- Meditate (try downloading the free Insight Timer or Headspace app)
- Pace
- Paint (perhaps pick up a “paint by numbers” project if you don’t feel like starting from scratch)
- Play a board game
- Play cards or solitaire
- Play chess
- Play computer games
- Play video games
- Pray
- Put together a photo album or scrapbook
- Question your beliefs
- Reach out to someone who’s struggling and offer support
- Read a children’s or young adult book (such as Harry Potter)
- Read poetry
- Read stories of people healing from psychiatric drugs
- Redecorate a room or do some house renovations
- Repeat a mantra
- Repeat an affirmation
- Sing
- Sleep
- Socialize
- Swim
- Take an Epsom salt bath
- Take photographs (some like to look for beautiful things)
- Try sensory deprivation (such as a flotation tank)
- Visit a museum
- Visit encouraging websites, such as Beyond Meds or Recovery Road
- Volunteer at a local nonprofit or charity
- Walk
- Watch a movie, a Disney movie, or TV show, especially a light-hearted one
- Watch documentaries on issues that interest you
- Watch TED talks
- Work on a jigsaw puzzle
- Work part-time
- Write—whether free-flow writing, in a journal, or a short story or poem